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cadani
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lasagne burkiis see loo sameynaa hee mise asigoo diyaar ah aa jiro
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Bilan
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cadani there is ready made ones, some u must cook for 3 min with hot water, others are already pre-cooked
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Tuujiye
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Men should know how to cook.. After the best cooks in this world are all men. But when a man gets married, he should do less cooking but should never stop to cook for his wife.
But my case is different..I cook for my slef everyday and have been since I was 14..But after aroos, my iskaabulo days are over and I need a long rest from cooking and cleaning..kkkkkkkk.. 4real.. maybe after couple of kids I will start cooking again.
X..you fiminsit.. I hope you get some reer badiyo that abuses woman!!!
PS. wlc back asbaxyahee
Wareer Badanaa!!!
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X_quizit
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^^ What makes u think u have a choice when u cook? I'd advise ur wife to get ur sorry arse in the kitchen as much as possible, for it doesn't take a clit to cook...(excuse the lingo)....pisses me off when men who claim they can cook decide to hang up the apron when they get married to their maids, err wife.....Cooking makes u less manly? Our society is so warped that it makes the man feel less for cooking when he's married, but it's ok when he's single....Marriage and living together isn't one sided dear, u eat there, shit there, sleep there, I expect, no DEMAND u do ur share of cleaning and cooking as one gender isn't more capable than another nor more responsible for the house than the other (provided ur both working).
If the wife stays home, ur still not off the hook, u clean up during the week after she cooks u dinner, and on the weekends, all cooking goes to u. She needs her rest and isn't some farm animal that's continually put to work.
Another thing that makes my blood boil is when men cook in restaurants they are given prestigious titles "Chef" and when women have been cooking since the dawn of time do not get nearly the same appreciation for their art while the man is praised. Time ladies to help change our society for the better, and it all starts at home. Give the hubby his share of the responsibility and teach ur boys to also do their part. Our best example is the Prophet (saw) who did for himself what many somali men would deem to be beneath them, such as cook, sew his own clothes, clean his own clothes, etc.
p.s.-Its FEMINIST, NOT FIMINSIT  |
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cadani
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mentality of westerngirls
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X_quizit
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^ No dear, its the mentality of humans.  |
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Miriam
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LOL@X. Takes time to change girl.... I remember when my dad sees my brother in the kitchen he would scream on him saying... " get out from the kitchen are you a woman..just sit down in the living room and ask your sisters to bring what you want"
So, I just don't want him in the kitchen dee. What "My" husband do in the kitchen bal? I would ask him to do shopping and take kids to the schools, hospitals, soccer game but no thanks.... the kitchen and the house are my "Kingdom". I don't want him to do anything I love to do things my way.
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X_quizit
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That's quite fine Miriam, as long as that works for ur household, no problems, but what i was saying is that not all women want to be tied to the kitchen all day while the men want to watch their fav sport, I wouldn't mind watching sex and the city and hubby making me my fav dish. It's all about compromise.
p.s.-ur father also telling ur bros' that its women's work doesn't help either. Household chores have no gender. |
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BirimoIyoSugunto
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^^^Tell it like it is Sista(naa heedhe waan kuu xiisnay...how's da million'dolla woman doingggg maalimahaan...hope u'shuffling all that snow out of the roof)...
back 2 the topic....I Believe EVEry Women Should know how 2 COOK 4 her own Benefitz...after all later on every1 is gonna have a Family insha allah'tacalaa...BUt that doesnt' mean U Can't Teach ur Sons just like U Teach ur Daughters how 2 cook....I"mean even thought I have brotha'z who hate 2 cook..I make sure they COOK once in a WHILE..Yez I DO.....Who's gonna teach 4 them when their wive's r pregnant???? ..what the hell they ain't comin' back home 2 get food from us..lol..Heck no..they ought 2 learn how 2 make baasto and maraq and tea...it ain't that hard 2 make it anyhow'z..Plus COOKin is kind FUN now day'z 4 moi...lol..I feel segggggggggggggggsi nooh markaa jikada ku jiro'...ala if i only knew that long time ago....waa isku dhici lahaa hade...dat was my 2 cent worth 4 a dime..  |
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X_quizit
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| Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 9:25 pm Post subject: |
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^miss u my loof...how u been?
Ur always segsi, especially when u cooked for me and Xia...apart from the time she choked on the fish...
I have a bro that loves to experiment with cooking...w/o anyone browbeating him into it...so he'll make a great hubby....care for a hook-up? |
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Bilan
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NoVA and X-quizit, naayaada u sorry excuse for dumar, u cant cook to safe yr fat arses 
but seriously in my case it is CAN COOK but WONT COOK. just like men i want my hubby to cook and DEMAND a breaky every morning in BED, if he can not provide that he is DISMISSED.
i remember as a kid, nin jikada ku jira was ceeeeeeeb, however since the roles of men and women have shifted aduunkana is badaley and i am working and earning albeit spending on myself( a fact that has no relevance here) i think the MAN should cook. he is lucky if i boil an egg 
funny thing i am good cook i should get a michelin star
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Rudy
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me like to cook but i cant. one time a friend of mine ask me to cook so i go into kitchen, get the stuff out and yelled, shall cut the onions first or the potatoes.
then i was escorted outta of the kitchen. well, i tried.  |
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Cadaan
Sarkaal Dhexe
Joined: 06 Nov 2005
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Location: The place where Somalis and cowboys collide
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| X_quizit wrote: | ^^ What makes u think u have a choice when u cook? I'd advise ur wife to get ur sorry arse in the kitchen as much as possible, for it doesn't take a clit to cook...(excuse the lingo)....pisses me off when men who claim they can cook decide to hang up the apron when they get married to their maids, err wife.....Cooking makes u less manly? Our society is so warped that it makes the man feel less for cooking when he's married, but it's ok when he's single....Marriage and living together isn't one sided dear, u eat there, shit there, sleep there, I expect, no DEMAND u do ur share of cleaning and cooking as one gender isn't more capable than another nor more responsible for the house than the other (provided ur both working).
If the wife stays home, ur still not off the hook, u clean up during the week after she cooks u dinner, and on the weekends, all cooking goes to u. She needs her rest and isn't some farm animal that's continually put to work.
Another thing that makes my blood boil is when men cook in restaurants they are given prestigious titles "Chef" and when women have been cooking since the dawn of time do not get nearly the same appreciation for their art while the man is praised. Time ladies to help change our society for the better, and it all starts at home. Give the hubby his share of the responsibility and teach ur boys to also do their part. Our best example is the Prophet (saw) who did for himself what many somali men would deem to be beneath them, such as cook, sew his own clothes, clean his own clothes, etc.
p.s.-Its FEMINIST, NOT FIMINSIT |
The only thing that makes any sense out of that is the part about Nabi Muhammad SCW. You gonna start ranting and raving about how men can do no wrong and are "sweet little angels" while women do "all the work and don't get appreciated" in every thread? Now you're doing it in a new forum!! *someone please get me some earplugs*
You are partially right about helping out in the house if the wife doesn't work outside the home, but there's no need to set the rules like "on the weekends, all cooking goes to u". Cooking is easy. If she can't do it on the weekends, then there's a problem. But I help my wife with whatever she asks, but I don't demand anything of her, so would expect her to not demand anything from me. |
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X_quizit
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| Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 5:48 pm Post subject: |
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^^^No one is holding a gun to ur head and making u read what i post dear lil misguided geeljire, so save the drama for ur mama. This isn't a new forum for me, and I can post whatever i DAMN WELL PLS KID. Problems with somali men are relevant anywhere therefore need to come to light wherever we are. No need to sweep ur SHORTCOMINGS under the rug , im gonna highlight it, blow a horn on it, draw u a pic till the disgrace that's called somali man changes. 
In any case, my example of the man cooking of the weekends, was just another way of sharing the chores, whatever the couple decide btwn themselves is on them. |
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cadani
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| Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 7:19 pm Post subject: |
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woow waaba la is mahdiyey..awguuriyo
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Cadaan
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| X_quizit wrote: | ^^^No one is holding a gun to ur head and making u read what i post dear lil misguided geeljire, so save the drama for ur mama. This isn't a new forum for me, and I can post whatever i DAMN WELL PLS KID. Problems with somali men are relevant anywhere therefore need to come to light wherever we are. No need to sweep ur SHORTCOMINGS under the rug , im gonna highlight it, blow a horn on it, draw u a pic till the disgrace that's called somali man changes.
In any case, my example of the man cooking of the weekends, was just another way of sharing the chores, whatever the couple decide btwn themselves is on them. |
You can actually draw me a picture about it? Now that's what I call talent!! You should draw one and post it here. And I'm an old man, by the way, probably older than you, so keep the "kid" comment for yourself. |
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Tuujiye
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| Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 12:29 am Post subject: |
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X....shuuuuuuudh Uuuuuuuup.. but wlc back yaaqee..we missed your qumayonimo.. ha i xag xagan lee waa ku tuugaa........
Listen you fiiimiinistaaa!!! Aniga waan kuu sheegay..waxaad u baahan tahay mid reer miyi ah oo aanan aqoon naxariis dumar dhan.. his blievena ee tahay..the woman cooks and cleans and the man works for the family...kaas oo kale lee kugu qaban doono haduusan wili kugu qaban ama uu kugu qabtay but kuu ganban yahay..looool..
your problem is that your too westernized and think shit in real aroos is like the shit you see on TV..lol.. Marax yahee intii qoorsagaaro lagugu qabto aa jikada madax madax laguugu tuuraa adigoo wili af gaduudan (Cas) oo leerineysid....
Nova..kkkkkkkkkk.. hadii aa "seggsiiiiiiiiii" Jiko ku tahay barxada sidaa ku tahay waa lagugu soo shumuumaa aa ka wadaa yaah!!..kkkkkkkkk.. Booyeeso maa ahaan jirtay waaba kaa shakiyee? mise maqayad aa kabayeeri ka tahay?..adigoo baaji dhinac kaste ka gub gubtay qabtid aa dad maraq aad u qabtid fara dhaq ku dharbaax daa yaah?...kkkkkkkkkk.. naga leexo marax yahee mushaarida kasoo ureeso!
Xia... Sariirta cunto run maa laguugu keenaa mise cunto oo adiga iyo duqaada isku taqaani doontaan?kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk..sorry..could help that saqajaanimo part..y'all know me...
Nin naagtiisa sariirta Koosto iyo muufo iskugu duubaayo, Casanova waa ka daran yahay oo iskaalamiintada aa u go' day..faankuulo dheh!!!!
Cadani..Maryoole waakuwaan sxboo, inta ee foodleyda yihiin ee booteenayaan ha u bixin maskiin aa tahay oo waa lagu haroostay waan u jeedayee!!...Waraa markii la guursado oo 7 bari beerka loogaga istaago, buugii u qornaa dhan goomo aa ku tirtirmaayo.. Page cusub aa adiga kuu furmaayo markaas aa qalin biire ku qoree si uusanba u tirtirmin nooh. Hada kahor aa oday tacbaan ah wuxuu ku maah maahay "Naago nimaan madaxooda mija u rogin, nin ma moodaan"........Marka baaba 7 inta lagu jiro in aa is xoreesid waaye laakiin hadii rabtid buugoo cusub oo daljiyeesan...
Wareer Badanaa!!!
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X_quizit
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| Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 6:51 am Post subject: |
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^^ I've just realized u have the attn span of a fly and probably the intellect to match, so ur deemed to be no harm.
What u don't get is, if the man was really doing his part, and that doesn't just include working outside the home, then many women, including urs truly would bend over backwards for those that deserve it. When someone has the decency to not look to u as a maid or to not equate all ur worth to the apron, then such a man deserves to be treated well, and with a smile on my face too. BUT when a lil mijo basto with a tire for a belly dares to tell me my role, that's when he just might find a lil' surprise in his baris, and it won't be pleasant.
All this bs about being westernized, stop hiding behind that....even women raised in the west choose to stay home and be a housewife, so it has nothing to do with where we are raised, but has to do a whole lot in the environment and time we are in. Most couples need 2 incomes, and if one is lucky enuff to stay home (her choice of course), then being a housewife is even more backbreaking than a simple 8 hr job. For one such as u, not to realize that woman's worth and that her job is never finished, thinking she owes u as the one who was born with the uterus to clean up after u, ur sadly mistaken and misguided.
As for Little liban over there, u may be as gray as mother teresa, but ur mentality is that of a 10 yr old. Grow up. |
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Cadaan
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| Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 9:23 am Post subject: |
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As for Little liban over there, u may be as gray as mother teresa, but ur mentality is that of a 10 yr old. Grow up. |
LOOOOL I got the mentality of a 10 yr old! Why is that? Cuz I don't agree with your view that the man has to bend over backwards for his wife before she even lifts a finger for him? You're gonna need to find some desperate 5 ft tall, 50 lb. farax to marry you, cuz he's the only one desperate and stupid enough to go along with your scheme. |
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Bilan
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| Quote: | Xia... Sariirta cunto run maa laguugu keenaa mise cunto oo adiga iyo duqaada isku taqaani doontaan?kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk..sorry..could help that saqajaanimo part..y'all know me...
Nin naagtiisa sariirta Koosto iyo muufo iskugu duubaayo, Casanova waa ka daran yahay oo iskaalamiintada aa u go' day..faankuulo dheh!!!!
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well well, this is what cadani calls (eventje stoer doen) meaning, adiga oo kale saaaxiib u worse than casanova, you probably will make yr wifey's next day lunch maqribki marka we all know who rule the house, this whole BS about writing new page or rogitaan new leaf is hahahahahaha laughable
X-quizit, you gotta understand that you have touched a nerve, men have lost their role in society as providers and they dont fit as home-makers so overall they feel a loser in whatever role they try to put their green fingers on.
if men were decent human beings they will put logic and rationality before all, and say to themselves, ok, i am not good with books, ok i cant get shahaado, ok i cant get a decent job, atleast let me zip it be decent and wait on my lovely wife hand and feeeeeeeet.
get cooking dudes,
ps:honey i be home in 20 min, u can set the dinner table now, umaaaaaaaah love ya
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